Been gone so long

It’s so hard for me to pull it together and get out of this slump! With my husband gone I just don’t want to do much of anything, he is my everything my inspiration, my passion and with him being gone I just can’t seem to get around to doing anything. The only time I actually pull it all together is 2 days before I head off to see him! He is a big help though he always sends the sweetest texts and calls every night before bed! I know what he has to do to keep us afloat but what I wouldn’t give to be with him and be his helper again, don’t get me wrong it’s hard work but it was worth it to see him so happy When I was with him! Pipeline wife’s don’t have it easy by any means! We have to stay strong minded and strong willed and all the while hold down the fort, pay the bills and keep our chin up when we are hurting inside because we miss them so much. Our welders are not just a paycheck like so many people think,they are our soul mates, our undying lovers and for pipeliners like mine the last of a dying bread who is holding on to a dying industry that is turning into punk kids and flat bill hats! It’s heart breaking to hear him so upset about where this industry has gone. All of this stress on top of missing my love makes for a real sad time. But It won’t be like this forever! God bless the pipeliner and his wife!

Staying strong

its been almost 4 weeks since I have even seen or kissed his sweet face! And I won’t lie it’s killing me! I don’t know what gods big plan is and why he keeps keeping us apart but this year has already been crazy hard! I love my husband more than anything in this whole world and I know he loves me so much! So babe if your reading this, I love you and thank you for everything you do for us! And how hard you work for our dreams! I can’t say thank you enough! This stretch has really taken its toll on me! Thank god for the farm there is lots to focus on and to keep my mind busy! So thank heavens for that! Being a pipeliners wife is hard it’s not easy and I think that’s why it takes a special kinda woman to hang in there! I’m glad I’m one of those few special women! 

Pipeliners wife

It has been a full week since he got on the plane, it’s been ok. I have been keeping myself busy with re decorating our bed room and taking care of the farm. It’s never easy when he’s gone I love him so much and can’t wait tell I can kiss his sweet face again, but I know I still have two or three more weeks I hope they go by just as fast. I love how hard he works and what he has sacrificed for us to have this wonderful life we have! I love you baby your the best husband ever! Below is a pic of the pipeline he is laying in Alaska. 

The farm

Hi everyone, sorry it’s been crazy around here. With the oil price being so slow everyone around here got laid off and my husband had to go to Alaska. It’s been bitter cold here, haven’t seen the sun in a week. I have been over feeding the horses and cow like crazy because it’s so cold. The goats don’t seem to mind but the horses are not happy, with frozen ears and frozen beards they haven’t been moving around a lot and I feel so bad. I can’t wait for it to warm up! 

Pipeliner’s wife 

A phone call from Alaska, all is well, just waiting for the phone call that says he’s past his weld test. This is always the most stressful time and I can’t stand it, test days have always been my worst days waiting and wondering and worried. I love all the stories he tells when he calls, about people he’s met and talked to and all the fun things he’s seen, sometimes it breaks my heart I can’t be with him to share in all the fun . Good luck babe hope you do good on your test today.

A photo he sent me from kenai Alaska 

pipeliner’s goodbye


I should have know better than to get my hopes up, this time of year in the basin usually means that its going to slow down, well with the price of oil dropping so low it all but died around this place, everyone I know has or is getting laid off. It’s so hard because that’s when all the stress hits. Thank the good lord above my husband didn’t skip a beat he was laid off one day and by noon the next was getting a plane ticket for the last frontier, Alaska! I am so happy for him its a big thing to be from the lower 48 and to have worked on a pipeline in Alaska they don’t mess around up there. I am however a little sad one because I wont see him for three or four solid weeks and two because I didn’t get to go with him! I love Alaska it’s the most beautiful place in the world!  I am so happy for him to have this experience and to have this notch in his belt! I love being a pipeliner’s wife there is never a dull moment, it does however always get harder every time he has to leave. That goodbye always kills me. Its bitter sweet kinda thing.